Guidance

Why your matches never turn into dates

Written by Matthew Macdonald | Apr 3, 2026 2:00:00 AM

1. You always open with: "Hey, how's it going?"
2. You send unsolicited dick pics, alongside the caption: “So horny.”
3. Your compliments are shallow and generic.
4. You ask to meet up, but don’t specify a plan.
5. You keep asking for more photos.

How to turn matches into dates:

1. Start with a curious question or thoughtful comment, specific to her profile.
2. Genuinely compliment her vibe, style, smile, personality, humour, or opinion.
3. When you ask her out, suggest a specific activity, day, and rough time.
4. Frame the date as low-pressure and casual.
5. If she's apprehensive to meet, suggest a video call first.