This is a topic of much debate.
According to a poll involving 1,800+ women between 25-35:
11% prefer when men go all-out.
Fine-dining, champagne.
8% prefer zero planning.
“Wanna hang out?”
81% prefer something specific, but casual.
✅ 45 to 90 minute duration
✅ Easy exit if you're not vibing
✅ Option to extend if it's going well
Examples:
– Coffee and a walk (public park, not remote trail)
– Brunch
– Casual lunch (sushi, tacos, pizza, ramen)
– A drink at a nice bar
– Browsing market stalls
– Ice cream/smoothie