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Don't be the premature boyfriend

Certain behaviours are appreciated, or at the very least accepted, once you're in a committed relationship. 
But in the very early stages of getting to know someone, they're more likely to scare them away.

Stuff like…
– Being jealous about her male friend
– Liking and commenting on all her posts
– Double-texting when she hasn’t replied
– Making long-term plans 
– Buying expensive gifts

You might think you're signalling loyalty, thoughtfulness, intention, and affection. She likely sees it as insecurity, clinginess, over-investment, and love-bombing.

Attraction makes people do crazy things.
But be cool, you just met.

Here's what to say

 

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