Dating apps don't define you

Here’s a sad reality:Many young men have only ever romantically interacted with women through dating apps.
Which means when they don’t get matches, they assume it’s because they’re undesirable.
Which is ridiculous.
I know countless men who do terribly on the apps, yet in real life they’re magnetic to women.

It's usually because they're either…

– Unphotogenic but charismatic
– Way funnier in person
– Self-respecting but uncomfortable with self-promotion
– Warm and conversational, but uncomfortable texting strangers
– Confident, but shorter than 5'10
– Emotionally mature, but younger than 25

The worst part?

Many of these men never realise how attractive they actually are.

The apps convince them they’re undesirable…

So when it comes to speaking to women in real life, they think:

“What’s the point?”

Bad at dating apps ≠ unattractive to women.